Dear Justin,
The Girls don't want to be biased with you. But we think you're being unfair to May. We are not judging you with your actions with her. But you should understand that she's a woman. And as girls, we can totally relate to her. Most probably, right now she has millions of questions running through her mind. Why isn't he calling me? What did I do to get this treatment from him? Is there something wrong with me? Those questions will remain unanswered unless you do something about it. Instead of avoiding the issue at hand, why not deal with it? Go talk to her. Be a REAL gentleman and tell May that she seems nice but you're just not ready to enter a serious relationship. But NEVER EVER APOLOGIZE for what you did. The last thing a girl needs is a guy who wasn't really himself when he slept with her. Just gently lay it down to her. Be honest about your feelings but without intentionally hurting hers in the process. It will affect her, yes. But, at least, she knows the truth and won't expect anything from you. We hope this advice helps..=)
Much Love,
The Girls
Miyerkules, Nobyembre 16, 2011
Last week I was in a disco with my friends and I had one night stand with a girl name May. I always thought she is beautiful but I never really like her, I was really drunk that time and it just happened. After that night she always text and called me and I feel so annoyed. I never replied and answer her call. What should I do to stop her from bugging me?
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Yeah, girls are dumb. Not initiating conversations with her is not enough, you need to completely ignore her (reject her calls, don't answer her sms messages) so she'd realize you aren't into her at all. Don't follow the advice above, the girl will think that you care enough not to hurt her and would continue harboring thoughts that you and her can have something more than just a one-time roll in the sack.
TumugonBurahinOh my God Anon 19:22! You're such a jerk.. And how insensitive are you to say that.. I bet you don't have a decent girlfriend. I bet if you have one, she can't even take your attitude.. how disgusting.. Ignore his comment Ask The Girls.. He has nothing good to do!
TumugonBurahinlol! yeah, we should coddle clingy girls who think ONS are supposed to be something special. let them continue thinking that yeah, guys would bend over backwards for them even if they aren't welcome. women cried for equality right? grow up and live with it! - Anon 19:22
TumugonBurahinHey Anon 19:22- have you ever experienced KARMA? if not, better be careful with your mouth. you know what, a decent guy would probably clean its mess because he doesn't want it to happen with him,.. How would you feel if you love a girl so much,.. stalk her? yah right,... the next thing will happen to you,..you will be dump like a hot potato..tsk..tsk... try to put yourself in her shoes,.. OMG- BE A MAN
TumugonBurahinlooks like this is an advice side for clueless people who already agree on what the world should be and do not see the world as it is. lol!
TumugonBurahinlet me clue you in about guys, we are very simple creatures. we like pretty girls, we bend over backwards to make them smile and would do anything to 'score' with them. scoring again and again with one is an ego boost for us. given those basic parameters, let's try to understand what the person asking for advice really is saying.
1) the girl is pretty yet he does not like her <--- there must be some problem with the girl.
2) the guy already scored with a pretty girl and the girl is obviously open to more contact with him <--- he has a pass to score again and again with a pretty girl.
3) despite having a "get between a pretty girl's legs" pass the guy wants the girl to leave him alone <--- do I need to repeat myself and say "THERE MUST BE SOME PROBLEM WITH THE GIRL"
the girl May is mature enough to decide for herself to have an ONS. I'm quite sure everybody here understand that ONS are no strings attached sex. let me repeat, "NO STRINGS ATTACHED". now for those who do not understand that simple concept, it means, you have sex and you go your separate ways, it's nothing special, there's no "WE", there's nor "RELATIONSHIP". the girl May is exhibiting the clingy psycho behavior that NO GUY would like to deal with.
being nice to clingy psycho biatches is just giving them ideas that you are going to be nice to them whatever happens. coddling people like these is the worst thing that people should do. give them a slap to wake them up is the best way to "HELP" them. if they don't wake up, just wish that slapping them gets you in their sh!t list so they won't bother you again. multi-purpose solutions, they're also part of the toolkit guys use.
this ends your lesson about guys and what should be done with clingy psycho biatches who don't understand the meaning of "NO STRINGS ATTACHED" sex.
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as for KARMA, better shoot for solutions with real value and with a realistic chance of doing something concrete instead of throwing wishy-washy advice because you can't bear to hurt idiotic people. the world is a mess, pretending it isn't and trying to keep everything nice so they can ignore the fact that their lives are f@cked is not making those people's lives better.
the real world is not nice, the real world is not fair. grow up and live with it!
- Anon 19:22